Tips for Your Moving Home Checklist

First of all, have an inventory of the items you are going to transport headed for your new home. Sort them properly into proper containers or moving boxes with the accurate labels to avoid confusion in unloading. It is apparent that we are not going to display all of our old items since we are updating the look of our new home and so we may keep the old objects in a suitable storage. In that way, we can still use them when we feel to have a change in the interior of our homes. These items can also be sold so that the monetary benefits can help you in acquiring new furnishings.

Subsequently, have a midweek schedule for travel since most of the companies are fully booked for the weekend. If you are fortunate enough to have a pickup on weekends it would be most likely that the transport will be rushed considering their hectic schedule. Updating your billing address should be included in your moving home checklist so that your payments will still be properly accounted.

Lastly, it is very important to have a survival kit during this time for your necessities. The kit should be accessible and equipped with the emergency materials such as flashlights, knives, medicines and toiletries. It is better to be always prepared as we cannot tell when we will be caught in urgent situations.

Real Estate Inspection Negotiation

The real estate inspection negotiation is one of the main reasons why transactions fail, and this is where a lot of sellers are having problems with. If you are planning to sell your property and would like to be successful with it, you need to find out how this negotiation can help you avoid potential problems in the future. This article will be discussing more about real estate inspection negotiation, and the things that you need to know about it in order to be successful with all your transactions. Read on to find out how it can help you make better sales and get more revenue from your properties.

A contract negotiation is something that is based on the price and the terms of the sale, which is very easy to close. However, there are some buyers who would want to be sure with the property that they are going to buy, and this is where the inspection negotiation comes in. This term refers to a process of checking the house intensively, and then makes a final offer for the house. There are a lot of cases wherein the offered amount in an inspection negotiation is lower than the contract negotiation, resulting to a “no deal” answer of the seller.

There are some buyers who will be asking for something that may seem impossible for a seller to provide and this is also a very common problem for a lot of sellers. Some say that this is an attempt of a buyer to take a chance and try to lessen the amount that he will be spending for the property, but there are also some sellers who are not aware of this negotiation and they were caught off-guard by the buyer. This is the reason why it is very important for someone to get a professional who can explain the different things that should be done when buying or selling a property.

If you are planning to sell a property, there are two things that you can do in order to avoid lower inspection negotiation offer than the contract negotiation; either you state everything in the contract or you fix the things that should be fixed before you sell the house. If you are going to do any of these things, the buyer won’t have a reason to give you lower rates for the property. We can say that this is your safety net for the transactions that you will get into.

You’re Stupid, Pathetic, a Sissy, a Loser! – The Art of Conversational Combat Jujitsu

(WARNING: Reader Discretion is Advised. Strong Inappropriate Offensive Languages in this Article. Read at your own Risk.)

Ok, so you’re out having a good time, meeting lots of girls, having fun, your energy is pumped, your state is so high, you never feel more alive…and then all of a sudden some jerk comes up to you and calls you “stupid”, “loser”, “pathetic”, etc.

Your heart skips a beat, your body begins to boil up, you ear tingles “Oh no, he did not just call me that!” Your first response is that you are ready to knock this guy out KO. … or either you’re trying to think of a witty quick comeback to attack him back, and so just remain there in silence until it is too late.

If you’ve ever seen a fight on a night out, it would usually go something like this:

One person would say “Screw you!”. The other person would then say “Screw you motherscrewer, I’m gonna screw you up!” right back, and the other person would say “Screw you!” again. This endless “Screw-You Altercation” gets really childish and pathetic and even humorous after time.

It’s like “Screw you!” is the only clever thing they can think of up to attack the other person back with. That is the only thing they can say. Very non-intellectual, verbal combat Jujitsu, indeed if you ask me.

I’ve been getting questions regarding how to handle insults and abusive verbal attacks that can happen whenever you go out because this game can be brutal when it comes to trying to get the same girl other guys have same interest in, but have no fear, I’ll give you some lethal tactics to handle these situations.

I’ll be honest with you…I was bullied a lot when I was younger, and I thought about this for a long time and developed ways to counterattack this into simple social structures to be used over and over again.

What I’m about to show you really work and are extremely effective against these types of people who messed with you, but I caution you not to use them for evil.

Therefore, I’d like to devote today’s lesson exclusively to “the Art of Conversational-Combat Jujitsu” training.

Put on your Jujitsu-uniform and prepare to get an instant black belt today!
I’m going to share with you some powerful social structures to be used in regards to conversational Jujitsu when somebody does verbally attack you.

Most people would tell you to just simply ignore it, like it is no big deal, and that is what they told you back in grade school, and that is fine; however, that doesn’t actually stop the attacker from continuing attacking at a later point.

You can ignore them, but I challenge you to social experiment, besides, would you rather feel a little more satisfied if you could have fun with it and stretch your creative muscle?
If anything else, go with the flow, and never get defensive and succumb to their frame.

The frame you want to come from is, “How can I make the attacker look pathetic because of his action?”

When you are out there, there will be people who will mess with you, and you have to know and be prepared to defend yourself that reverts their own attack back on them to make them be the idiots of their own aggression.

A mirror attack, like in Aikido, the form of martial arts where you redirect your opponent’s energy attack right back on them. Reverse and reflect the damage back on them so you’re not the overaggressive, testosterone-fueled perpetrator.

Why?

Ever notice how in a fight, whoever is the one (Person A) getting beaten up by the other (Person B) is always seen as the victim and your natural instinct is to just step in to help that Person A who is getting beaten up by Person B, even though it probably never occurred to you that Person A could be the one who harmed Person B first, but it’s just that Person B is better at physical confrontations, and Person A is playing the “victim’s card” to draw outside sympathy to crush Person B.

I know it’s an unfair fight.

This happens a lot especially with girls.

A guy punches a girl, and then hell breaks loose for that guy as all the other guys jump in and will knock the shit out of that guy who punched that girl, even though she could have done something to him first.

She’s playing the victim’s card.

That’s why we want to divert the damage caused by the other person back on them to make them the fool that they set out to cause you to be; and you’re not playing the victim’s card either.

The key is to focus on them and what they are doing says about them, NOT on what they’re actually say.

Example:
“What’s with the messy hair? You need to get a haircut.”

“Somebody seems jealous.”

To be frank, I don’t like doing this because I rather befriend the guy and possibly add him to my social circle, but there is a certain time when you have to let diplomacy go out the door.

So here are the things you can do. Remember always accompany these with a smile.

Some of my simple default blunt answers would be “Cool”, “I know”, “That’s awesome”.
And now the social structures you can use over and over again to guide your responses are:

– The Question Counterattack

Counterattack with a Question. Respond everything they say with a question.

Example:
Attacker: You’re a stupid idiot!
You: Are you impressed? Are you looking to become one as well? Are you asking for advice on to be a stupid idiot too? What’s with the attitude, did your girlfriend break up with you?

– The Expert Counterattack

This technically makes them seem like a big-know-it-all pedant.

The formula for this social structure is you would start off with, “Yeah, and you would know because…” and whatever they attacked you with, use it right back on them.

Example:
Attacker: You’re a stupid idiot!
You: Yeah, and you would know because you’re the expert on stupidity.
You: Yeah, and you would know because you’re the BIGGEST idiot in the room.

Attacker: You’re a pussy!
You: Yeah, and you would know because you have the largest pussy hole of them all.

– The Sarcasm Counterattack

Agree and Exaggerate to the Ridiculous Extreme in sarcastic approach tone.

This is the one you can have the most fun with because you are simply just going with the flow and agreeing with the other person but exaggerating so much to the extreme that it becomes hard to take anything the interaction goes less than a joke.

Example:
Attacker: You’re a stupid idiot!
You: Absolutely my good man! I’m the biggest stupid idiot of them that I cry about it all the time and have to see a therapist 3 time a day, everyday, every year, that I’m broke, homeless, nobody loves me, everybody hates me and never talks to me except for you. You’re my new best friend of good ole buddy ole pal.

– The Clueless Counterattack

Silent, Don’t Register, Stale-Face, Eye-blinking…Hmmm?

This one requires the least amount of effort to execute. For those of you who like to stay non-reactive, this will probably be your favorite one but with a little added spice.

You’re just giving them a continuous blunt “Hmmm?”, with a stale-face blinking your eyes like what that person said didn’t register. It has to be somewhat apparent that they know you understand what they are saying but just not bulging, like you’re toying with them.

Doing this over and over again, and constantly making them repeat themselves to hopefully agitate them, they would usually quit, if not use the other counterattacks.

Example:
Attacker: You’re a stupid idiot!
You: Hmmm? (stale-face, eyes blinking)
Attacker: You’re a stupid idiot!
You: Hmmm? (stale-face, eyes blinking)
Attacker: I said you’re a stupid screwing idiot! (getting more agitated)
You: Hmmm? (stale-face, eyes blinking)
Attacker: Are you deaf?
You: Hmmm? (stale-face, eyes blinking)

– The Assumptive Counterattack
Make up an absurd assumption about the attacker that makes them look like idiot of what they are saying or to your favor.

Example:
Attacker: You’re a stupid idiot!
You: Oh so you must work with retards then.

Now isn’t learning these social structures to these counterattacks so much better than memorizing 50 thousands clever witty comeback lines that you would probably forget?

But Gabriel, what if somebody do say “Screw you!”?

Hot Girl: Screw you!
Me: You wish. (Assumptive Counterattack)

Asshole: Screw you!
Me: Sorry, not into dudes. (Assumptive Counterattack)

(Also notice here, how I redirect what the girl said to make it seem like she wants to have sex with me, but that will be a lessen for another time.)

Always focus on the other person, on the “you”, not on “I”. This way you shine the spotlight back on themselves and they will be forced to justify and defend themselves, then you’ve gotten them right where you want them to be.

Finally, here is an example of a full interaction with all these counterattacks applied, that happened to me one night when I was out talking to a girl when this attacker came up to me:

Attacker: Ewww…

Me: Awww, poor baby boo needs his mommy to clean up his “ewww” mess? (Question Counterattack that makes him look pathetic)

Attacker: What’s with the shirt?

Me: Hmmm? (Clueless Counterattack)

Attacker: I said what’s with the stupid shirt!

Me: You like it. Wanna have it? (Question Counterattack) It will look so much better on you. (Assumptive Counterattack)

Attacker: I ain’t gay like you!

Me: Yeah, and you would know…that would make you the biggest queer in the room then. (Expert Counterattack that makes him the gay one instead)

Attacker: Screw you! (finally losing control)

Me: Sorry, not into dudes (Assumptive Counterattack)

Notice how the more he continued on attacking, the more he continued to shoot himself in the foot and became the victim of his own aggressive attacks. I was not necessarily attacking him. I was reflecting the attacks back on him.

Overall, let the attacker be/create/cause their own demise, without you being guilty.

So now you have some powerful social structures to deflect any verbal confrontation, so please drop the unoriginal lame “Screw you!” combat…you might have kids around listening.

These are my secret weapons, use them wisely.

Now that you’re verbally armed, that’s it for today’s lesson.

And remember…don’t go out intentionally looking for fights.